Social media platforms are best known as marketing tools, surprisingly people do develop a deep interest in some of their followers or people that they follow to the point of hooking up, dating, and eventually marrying. Besides with everyone trying to stay ahead of the biting economy, people rarely meet physically thus getting a partner the traditional way has become more of a pipe dream.
Things have, therefore, taken a turn and now all the magic is happening on the social media streets. Most people use Instagram to share their best memories captured on videos or photos, and some use the platform to advertise their businesses. A follower who likes you will react to everything that you post, they will even comment or leave emojis just to inform you that they have seen your post.
If you are keen enough, you will realize that some followers always react the moment you upload a quote, video, or photo and will always leave a nice comment behind. Well, these kinds of individuals can pique your mind and leave you wondering whether it’s just the photos, or they are interested in something more. When a girl likes a man they normally bait them and when the guy takes the bait it’s happily ever after, so does this girl on Instagram who follows you closely like you, find out below.
They befriend you on all the social media platforms
When a girl likes you they will try to bait you thus make themselves more noticeable. So, apart from the likes and comments on your Instagram page, they will get a hold of all your social media accounts, send friend requests and initiate conversations. Some will go to the extent of befriending your friends and family. They will turn on the notification posts to be alerted when you have posted something so that they can be the first ones to react.
She will always respond to your Insta stories
Girls are very poor at hiding when they have a crush on a boy, even if they cannot reach them they will always keep tabs and try their level best to be noticed. As such you will always find her reacting to your Insta stories and by that, we don’t mean hitting the like button rather they will respond to your stories as a means of starting a conversation.
Sends replies fast
One thing with messaging, whether through text or social media platforms is that we always get hooked to that one person that will respond immediately to a message you sent. If you text a girl on Instagram and she responds almost immediately, that is one of the sure signs that they like you. And unless you are related a random lady will not respond to your messages immediately and even if they do, they will be quick to cut the conversation short.
Always leaves positive and encouraging remarks
Apart from keeping the conversation going, a girl who likes you will always have something positive to say. The positive responses are an indication that the girl likes you, chances are that if you initiate a conversation, their messages will always be lengthy. If they think of you as a general friend, the conversations will be shorter, they won’t leave remarks on your stories neither will they like your posts.
She will not react to your posts about other ladies
You might be wondering what is it with the attitude, but when a girl likes you they already own you and will be crushed when they see you talk about other women even if you are just friends. Girls are inherently jealous, so if you notice that the girl who is always the first one to like your photos and comment on your posts has gone AWOL, then your post doesn’t sit right with them.
You can check their status to see their last seen indicating “3minutes ago,” yet you sent the post 10 minutes ago. The disappearance act might go on for a day or two until they convince themselves that there is nothing serious with the person that you have posted and they will be back on board like they never left.
She will accidentally like your older photos
If a girl likes you she will peruse through your photos and posts and accidentally like your old photo. Some will even leave comments that will no doubt catch your attention. If it is an old post, they will try to initiate a conversation on it to hook you. In between the messages, you will notice some cute emojis, others with love eyes, a hug, or a satisfactory smile.
They will tag you on their posts
Any time that the girl posts something good they will always tag you in those posts. You will get a notification, which might seem weird because you barely converse with the girl but that right there is an open declaration that they like you.
Sends flirtatious messages
Men are very good at decoding flirtatious messages, a girl who likes you will not be general neither will they be boring anytime that you initiate a conversation with them. You will, therefore, notice that their replies are not only encouraging but also open-ended, where you must reply. Others will quickly veer off and start asking personal questions or even tease you when they notice that you are uptight.
Will always be online when you are
Girls will always find time in their busy schedules to check up on you, you might even think that they are idle but they are actually trying to get your attention. She will monitor the time that you are online and create time so that she can chat with you. And this even means if they have to stay up into the late hours of the night. What’s more, is that they can chat with you till the early hours of the morning or midnight and not complain about sleep.
Conclusion
If a girl likes you on Instagram it will not be so hard to tell, because they will do everything within their power to catch your attention. Starting from liking your photos, leaving cut emojis and flirty messages on your Insta stories. Some are brave enough and will shoot their shot directly, informing you that they like you.
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